双语美文：只有懂得欣赏生活的人才会快乐。

Someone asked "What's your "secret" to a happy life? What makes your days blissful?" on a forum.
有人在论坛上问：“你保持生活愉悦的秘诀是什么？是什么让你的生活美滋滋的？“
I'm not annoying.Think I've got a higher level of life satisfaction than a lot of my friends. There are four things that I can put my finger on that I think I do a little differently than them (and a lot of people). Hope they bring you some joy!
我无意哗众取宠，但我真的觉得自己的生活满意度比周围的许多朋友高。我敢肯定，在四个实践与他们不同的事情，并希望这些不同的做法也给你带来快乐！
 
1. I'm constantly and conscientiously focusing on being grateful for all the amazing and miraculous shit in my life.
我所有的生活感到欣慰的是发生在美好的事物总是神奇。
My wife is a good human, I work with good people, I'm not sick right now, etc... Looking at the basic, mundane stuff around me and appreciating it really helps me feel like I'm a lucky person.
我的妻子是非常好的，我的同事都不错，现在我有没有病。看看我身边的这些司空见惯的事情，让我感动里，我觉得自己很幸运。
 
2. I'm always trying to find compassion for people - *especially* those that are pissing me off in one way or another.
我会找别人谁是悲惨的地方，尤其是那些谁惹恼了我。
 
If you don't have compassion, you stop trying to find the truth behind people's actions and usually just chalk up their negative ones to that person being an asshole.
如果你没有恻隐之心，你就会停止深究人们行为背后的含义，只记下可恶之人的讨厌之处。
 
3. Tell people you love them, be generous with your friends.
时常表达爱意，慷慨待友人。
 
I don't think people realize until they've lost something or made a truly irrevocable mistake just how much loss hurts, and how much they'd give to just express their love for whatever it was that is now gone.
我认为人们经常意识到失去的痛苦，以及他们多么想表达对那些在失去了什么或犯了不可挽回的错误后,才想对已去的人表达爱。
 
4. Always ask yourself if you could be wrong, and really be open to it.
绝不要忘了问自己有没有做错，并用开放的心胸接纳真相。
 
Give yourself a break, and don't hold yourself to unreasonable standards on this count: as long as you're looking around your world with an open heart and an open mind, the pure intentions behind anything you're wrong about will shine through.
休息一下，不要用不人道的标准批评自己，尽可能地看待这个世界，敞开你的心扉，解放你的思想，不要思考你是对还是错，用你的第一颗心照亮你的身心。


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